If you haven’t heard of the latest viral Tiktok trend, let us explain. What began as a satirical video about ‘demure’ behavior has completely enchanted the fashion and design industry, influencing trends for the fall. While the term is already fading away from use in social media, the ‘demure’ concept is going strong with thoughtfully curated rooms that champion delicate hues, feminine details, and sophisticated vintage pieces. While we love maximalist, artistic rooms, there’s something to be said for finding moments of stillness with the following demure bedroom decorating ideas.

Restrained Color Palette

We’ve said it before, but one of the easiest ways to set the tone of a room is through color. A restrained color palette of neutrals and soft pastels immediately creates a more serene and mindful atmosphere than one with say, bold jewel tones.

In particular, blush, creams, and pale yellows are soaring in popularity as they bring a sense of ease to a space. You can start with the walls and work in, or simply make a few swaps for more muted hues at home. For example, adding soft cream-colored velvet pillows and a cozy knitted throw will instantly make your bedroom feel more demure for fall. Take a look at this nursery we designed recently for inspiration on how to create an elevated space with neutrals.

Floral Wallpaper

Part of the demure trend involves leaning into subtle feminine prints and details. Wallpaper is more popular than ever, and for this trend, we’re looking at understated botanical prints. Floral wallpaper in muted hues can serve as a stylish backdrop in a bedroom. When paired with minimalist, clean-lined furniture and cozy textures, the wallpaper will draw the eye without overwhelming the space.

French Mirrors

If you want to add an air of elegance to your home without changing much, try adding a French mirror. Look for one with an ornate silver or antiqued gold frame to elevate the muted color palette of your space with a touch of glamor. French mirrors not only serve as functional decor, they also make a space feel more open and inviting. Position yours above your vanity, dresser, or on a statement wall.

Scallops, Bows, Rattan, Oh My!

Elements like scallops, bows, and rattan further add to the whimsical charm of the demure trend. These elements can be added to bedding, curtains, or furniture to bring the smallest hint of playfulness to existing decor. While rattan is perfect for summer porches, it also adds an earthy, natural touch to the fall.

Quiet Luxury

Instead of embracing all things feminine and whimsical, you could interpret the demure design trend as being another arm of quiet luxury. Quiet luxury revolves around the philosophy of subdued designs and high-quality materials, creating an air of refinement without being flashy. Think clean lines and tailored detailing. For example, you might invest in a hand-woven rug, polished wood floors, or a vintage crystal lamp to master the art of quiet luxury.

Vintage Pieces

Adding vintage pieces into your home design is another means of embracing the demure trend. Vintage treasures carry a history and craftsmanship that modern mass-produced furniture often lacks. Plus, these one-of-a-kind gems come with a sense of nostalgia and authenticity that new items can't replicate. By shopping secondhand, you're also making a mindful and sustainable choice, which is very demure!

We always take new trends with a grain of salt, but the demure trend is one of the easiest to integrate into existing designs. At its core, it’s all about being mindful and understated, which is always a good way to begin if you’re not sure which design direction to take. Feel free to reach out if you’d like to experiment with this trend at home, and be sure to explore our other articles for more design inspiration!